This is practical psychology shared in this post with 10 Psychological Tips to Get Her to Like You (in fact it will get anyone to like you if you do this consistently enough). This tips are great and will give you a pleasant impression on anyone that you meet.
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First off, I want to say that these are ethical and not manipulative, but will in the end make a girl subconsciously be attracted to and want to be around you more.
Tip #1: Have Your Own Life
This is literally the foundation of starting a great relationship and will give you are starting-base to make her like you. Think of it like this; if someone tries to sell you this amazing new book with all kinds of secret like formulas that will make you rich, happy, get a six pack in three days and become a new world leader and the marketing and packaging of the book looks great. But then you open it and read it and all it says is ”life is short, you don’t need these things, buy more books for better advice. When you’re trying to get into a relationship or make a girl like you and you have a boring life, this is literally what you are doing. Imagine having amazing life doing awesome things that you say; hey girl I really like having you around, do you want to stick around? And that’s all it takes. Make your own personal life interesting and girls will flock.
#2: Have an Interesting Hobby or Passion
Here’s another super-interesting tip that it’s hard to find elsewhere on the Internet. Literally just having just having one passion will make you seem more interesting, plus it adds respect to tip number one ”you’re starting your own line”. Your hobby can be anything that you’re passionate about, just make sure it’s true passion and not faked. If I said I love chainsaws and carving chainsaw art in my free time, but I actually didn’t, the spark won’t be there and the girl won’t see it. When you are actually passionate about something, your girl will notice. There’s something infinitely sexy about a guy with an intense passion towards something; it could be programming, motorcycling, cooking, drawing, reading, playing an instrument and anything else that suit your fancy, just put in the time, bonus point is we create something in the process.
Tip #3: Have Great Hygiene
Okay guys! Number one tip to instantly make a girl attracted, smell good. I don’t even mean smell amazing; you just have to smell decent. Go take a shower, rub body soap all over you twice. Shampoo your hair, dry yourself off, apply good deodorant, put clean close on and you’re set. No need to douse yourself with half a gallon of AX body spray, you just have to smell presentable. You can though buy some cologne and spray in one squirt, two squirts max. I recommend one on the wrist and one near your neckline. This is all it takes to smell great and girls fall for great smelling guys all the time.
Tip #4: Ask Her to Do Things for You
This is definitely a secret tip and maybe even a bit manipulative, but definitely not anything evil or negative, just ask her to do something for you. There is a psychological effect called the Benjamin Franklin effect, it goes like this; you ask a girl to do something for you, she does it and in the end she subconsciously likes you just a bit more. You might be asking why though? Well when we do stuffs for people, our brain thinks since we’re doing something for them, we must like them. Benjamin Franklin used this technique on his rivals and political opponents to get them to like him more. Also there’s something called the consistency bias; after someone has done something for you a couple of times, they’re more likely to do more just because they don’t want to look inconsistent. Tip: ask her things like picking up a pencil for notes in class, giving someone a paper or even small errands, but don’t overdo it though, she’ll feel like you’re using her.
Tip #4: Make Her Laugh
This is a great tip and you may not think you’re funny but, the truth is everyone can be funny if they try. You have to put yourself in enough situations to get used to the awkwardness of telling an unfunny joke enough that you have the confidence to tell more jokes around people, the more you tell the better you will get. Girls love laughing and the more that you can make them laugh, the higher up in their social chain you were seen; it proves that you are intellectually strong and humorous which is a desirable trait in your future mate. Also this will give you the chance to see where her eyes are going whenever she laughs to see if she’s interested in you at all.
Tip #5: Be Her Friend
There’s a big difference between being her friend and being friend-zoned. Also I want to note; it’s been proven and totally acceptable to be in the friend-zone for a moment set of time and then move in and start dating. Go the extra mile and do stuffs that make her smile. Do things that other guys wouldn’t do; stuffs like little notes in her car, send her good morning texts, talk through problems and sympathize with her. In fact in doing these you’re practically halfway already dating her, you just have to tell her that you want her for the rest of your life and you’re basically set.
Tip #6: Break the Touch Barrier
Here is a good subconscious psychological tip that works amazingly well in many situations. Touch her shoulder, ask her for something and grab it out of her hand or make up some games that require touching and playing with her like wrap paper scissors. Come up with the cool handshake if you have to, the idea is to make her know that you’re willing to touch her in a nonsexual way because you feel comfortable around her and to get her reaction. If she seems disgusted or scared, don’t touch her anymore.
Tip #7: Tell Her Secrets
Tell her a secret about you, something personal that not very many people know, this will open the door for trust and as you tell her more things about you she will notice that you trust her and in turn she will trust you more. Psychologically we like and trust people who trust us first, because we have a natural instinct to be wary of new people and not to trust them. When you prove that you trust her she will start to reciprocate back in the same fashion. I recommend telling her secrets that you’ll be okay with if other people knew just in case she tells someone, but make sure they are personal and make sure they will be considered a secret. Bonus points; if they are things that are slightly embarrassing, something like you have 11 toes or you’re voting for Trump should be fine.
Tip #8: Give Her All of Your Attention
In a world where your attention can go anywhere, it is one of the most valuable things you can give a girl. If you want her pay attention to her and not just for a couple of minutes, look her in the eyes when she’s talking to you and make mental note of all these stuffs she’s talking about. If you can mention it in later conversations she’ll feel special and start to enjoy your presence, this works with anyone.
Tip #9: Beef Up Your Confidence Game
I’ll be making a video soon on some amazing secret tips that you can do each day to boost your confidence game. This has a lot to do with being self-aware and knowing what makes you awkward and insecure and working on yourself and improving this to become more secure and confident in whom you are as a person. The best general advice I can give you to become more confident and to make a girl like you is to work out regularly. If you’re in middle school or high school, I suggest 3-days a week; arms, legs and core slash cardio. Now during the end of high school and during college you can do more advanced workout… Basically, if you work out you naturally will have confidence over your physical ability.
Every little thing that you do to make yourself feel better will add onto your self-confidence bank account and people will sense that. You want people to like you… you gotta like yourself first.